SARA is looking for an outgoing volunteer to serve as co-chair of our annual award celebration, scheduled for November 9th, 2012. Are you committed to SARA’s mission? Not shy about asking for support from local businesses? Have some creative ideas for a great event? We need you! Call Margaret at 434-295-7273, ext. 20.
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SARA seeks an organized, hard-working intern who is interested in learning about non-profit development. This is an excellent opportunity to gain first-hand experience with fundraising and donor cultivation. Duties: • Research and approach sponsorship prospects • Assist with planning and carrying out special events • Work in Fundraiser Select (fundraising database) to maintain accurate records and enter new information Qualifications: Undergraduate student, high computer literacy, discretion, strong verbal communication skills, and commitment to our mission. The dates and hours of the internship are flexible, however, we are seeking a commitment of at least 6 weeks, preferably longer. To apply, please contact Margaret Mikkelsen at 434-295-7273, ext. 20.
 Annette Grimm and Pat Cheeks SARA is requesting nominations for the annual Annette DeGregoria Grimm Award. In honor of Ms. Grimm, former SARA executive director, the award is intended to recognize extraordinary contributions to the elimination of sexual violence through education, advocacy, direct services to clients, through volunteer work, or legislative activities. The recipient may be recognized for a specific contribution of great magnitude or for a body of work over an extended period of time. The award is intended to recognize the contribution of ordinary citizens or professionals who work in the field. The recipient must be a resident of the SARA service area, a resident of the Commonwealth whose efforts benefit the entire state, or a resident of another state whose efforts merit national recognition. Nominations may be submitted by any person or by any agency that is involved in the elimination of sexual violence. The recipient will be honored at a breakfast November 9th celebrating SARA’s 33rd anniversary. Last year, a sold-out crowd honored Pat Cheeks, a Psychiatric/Mental Health Clinical Nurse Specialist and long-time SARA volunteer and board member. Nominations must be submitted by June 30th. Nominations are reviewed by a 5-member committee including one SARA Board member, one past SARA Board member, one citizen representative, one professional, and one SARA staff member. To nominate someone for the award, please send the following information to SARA, c/o of Rachel Smith, PO Box 1565, Charlottesville, VA 22902 or community@saracville.org.
We are looking for a committed volunteer to become a Board Member and Treasurer. Responsibilities include, but are not limited to, oversight of our finances, financial policies and procedures, working with our accounting officer to review and approve payroll and accounts payable, and collaboration with the Executive Director and Executive Committee. The ideal candidate will also provide financial and overall business advice. Like all Board Members, the Treasurer is expected to provide governing oversight and assist with fundraising. Interested? Call Margaret Mikkelsen at 434-295-7273, ext. 20. Brunch with SARAa benefit for the Sexual Assault Resource Agency Time and Date: May 6th 2012 11am-2pm Featuring a Special Musical Performance by Ashley McMillen  Ashley McMillen Sponsored by:Downtown Grille
Jean Theory La Taza Moxie Dear SARA, I’ve known for a long time that my husband was sexually abused as a child. I was never abused and I feel awful for him for having his innocence stolen that way. Recently I’ve realized that I didn’t know the full extent of the abuse. I’ve learned more and more, and I can’t help feeling a bit betrayed that he kept me in the dark for all these years. I feel bad about it, but don’t know what to do. —-Confused Spouse Dear Confused Spouse, You are not alone. When a spouse or partner learns about the abuse of a loved one, s/he often feels lied to, while the victim feels s/he has been protective and kind to have kept the details to his or herself. Your husband may have feared your reaction, or just wanted you not to worry. Minimizing what happened may have been a way he coped with what he experienced. Adults who were abused as children may find it difficult to trust others, especially if the abuser was known and trusted. Let your husband know you are willing to listen if he wants to talk, but that talking about the abuse is his choice. Your husband may need to feel heard, but he is unlikely to expect you to “fix” anything. Encourage your husband to get help and support in addition to what you can provide. It’s also important to take care of yourself. Even though you were not abused, hearing your husband’s account and providing support can be difficult. To make an appointment for yourself or both of you at SARA, call our office at 434-295-7273 and ask for the Adult Advocate.
The Urban Institute is conducting a study on how sexual assault forensic exams are paid for throughout the country. They have picked Charlottesville as one study site, and are having a focus group to hear from people who have had an exam, or wanted or needed an exam. More info: Make Your Voice Heard! Sexual Assault Forensic Exam Payment Practice Focus Group
Compensation: $40 Age Group: 18 and older (no exceptions) Date: Thursday, June 7th, 2012, 5-6pm at the SARA office To participate, contact: Margaret Mikkelsen at the Sexual Assault Resource Agency at 434-295-7273, ext. 20 Study: The Urban Institute, in collaboration with George Mason University and the Pennsylvania Coalition Against Rape/National Sexual Violence Resource Center, is conducting this study. It is funded by the National Institute of Justice of the U.S. Department of Justice. The purpose of this study is to: (1) Understand how sexual assault forensic exams are paid for throughout the country; (2) Identify best practices related to this; (3) Examine obstacles encountered when providing free forensic exams to victims; and (4) Provide information and analysis to help develop policies and practices that best serve victims. SARA heard the sad news this week that the first recipient of the Annette DeGregoria Grimm Award, Mandie Patterson, passed away on March 16th. As we said when we announced the 2010 honor, she pursued a vision unwaveringly focused on improving victims’ right and services, including victims of sexual violence. In 1983, when she came to the Department of Criminal Justice Services, there were virtually no significant victims’ rights or services explicitly established in the Code of Virginia. Mandie Patterson was one of the people behind the scenes working tirelessly towards changing this, and today, the Virginia Constitution recognizes the rights and interests of crime victims and Virginia now has a Crime Victims Bill of Rights. You can read the full award announcement here and her obituary here.
SARA is hosting two free child sexual abuse prevention trainings in April. Care For Kids Child Sexual Abuse Prevention Training Wednesday, April 11, 6:00-7:30 PM Or Monday, April 16, 12:00-1:00 PM Open to parents/guardians of children ages 2-6, early childhood educators and other professionals who work with children. The training promotes adults’ understanding of the link between healthy sexuality education and child sexual abuse prevention and adult responsibility for the safety and healthy development of children. It places the responsibility for prevention on adults, rather than on the children themselves. For more information contact Nancy Walker, 434-295-7273 ext. 42 or nwalker@saracville.org To register, go to http://www.safeschoolscville.org/2012_ChildAbuseAwarenessMonthActivities.html |
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